The boyfriends flinched quite disappointedly in front of parents\’ pressure 2010-04-02 11:19: 38 origins: The NetEase woman forum with pasting 0 handsets reads the news My Greece looks at an own family very much, likes me loving my person, perhaps he is not, chooses to flinch by me, I choose own sentiment.
Love and dear ones I choose the dear ones, if changes did before me to think that I will choose love, but I must choose the dear ones now.
I pass through my skilled worker to know that with my boyfriend, I am very from the beginning repugnant he, because thought that he is very bothersome, is specially inarticulate, but contacted for a long time later had discovered that he was a very careful person, although did not have the heart movement to him, was, was very actually warm, was very warm, the burden, this has not been I wants. Our dispositions very likely, has the tacit understanding very much, among us has not quarrelled, he is very good to me, sympathizes me very much. Actually I do not want to bid good-bye with him, but actually has to bid good-bye now, I knew that he will not raise, that let me be the unprincipled person to be good.
Original my parents are agree with me with him in the same place, but afterward knew that he also has a child not to agree. The matter is this, he before discussed a girlfriend, because had the child, two people prepared a banquet, do not have the bow tie marriage certificate, is planned to lead, afterward his ex-wife in some outside people, has followed the human, finally took away the right of guardianship of child, does not let him see the child, the goal does not want to let the child know that who her father is, gave the child support payment of child to draw back him, now his the child had four years old. Because his ex-wife family condition is better than him, is the only daughter, must therefore walk the child. These he has said with me, I may accept. Although after I am 90, is my family is very for me important, because I also live the single-parent family birth.
My parents knew after he has the child, firm did not agree, said that if I with him in the same place, must cut off the relations with me. That day my parents called him to my aunt family, asked that I chose anyone, finally I said elect him, at that moment they started to erupt, cursed at people there, said that my had not gotten married the girl to give others to be the stepmother, was the second wife, my aunt also in all directions said me to others, but also let my boyfriend buy the firecrackers and clothes, because my aunt they were do business in Hangzhou, but he had has divorced, was very unlucky, but also threw his handset in the ground. My father lets him give the money, said that raises I more than ten years money, because he is my foster father, when my seven-year-old my mother brings his family which I go. My mother said that must cut off mother and daughter to relate with me, but he did not speak, finally I let him buy the thing which my aunt requests, has not thought that finally he returned to Shanghai, threw me in Hangzhou. I call him, cannot make a connection, because was injured by falling down, can only send the information, he in the information to me said that he returned to Shanghai, in train station in Hangzhou, he said that my aunt was quite ominous, he does not dare to go back, said that my father and mother were creating obstacles for him, he said that will throw me there them will not feel embarrassed my, I saw he sent these letters felt relieved are cool. I choose his him actually like this to me, his flinching lets me start to hesitate, is not I do not believe his sincerity, but is his flinching also lets me start to flinch. Because I want the spouse should share joys and sorrows with me, but is not my one faces.
Although we also relate now, but he always said that waited for me to take the marriage certificate to be good with him, I asked that he thinks did not spend free marries a wife to go home, he said that I insufficiently loved him, said me to hesitate, was I was am hesitating, I started to suspect his sincerity, because he wanted me to solve all matters.
I was really good to be tired, I could not withstand suffer. I do not want to injure the parents again, although I very much do not love them, but I love dearly them. The father is not my one\’s own father he is my foster father. Initially my mother was compelled by my uncle the marriage to me the one\’s own father, for their family own benefit, now he is only authorized to have the potential, but I actually separated two places with the younger sister, was living the pitiful life, I with the younger sister was with the father with mother, mother lead me to marry two times, younger sister with the second person, because the younger sister was mother cherishes in the belly to marry, therefore that person did not like me, hit me, pinched me, burnt my hand with the smoke. The mother for I fights with him daily, finally mother led me to leave, arrived in present\’s home. Although more than ten years also had certain sentiment, are I are not joyful, saw each time others sisters are together good to envy in me. Equally has been hit to present\’s place, the stick broke has then hit, ate meal each time eats while cries, but also often punished by forcing to kneel, I did not know why he hit me, I have also not said anything to others, every day went home the cooking noisy vegetable, on Sunday must arrive in the field to help, I had thought one sufficed sensibly, but actually must come under attack. Also must be ridiculed in the school by the schoolmate, insult, he does not have does likely is a father to protect me equally, gives my father love, is only beating and scolding of every day, only then mother knows my pain, therefore I do not want to injure mother, I love her. Junior middle school\’s time schoolmates take the nickname to me, calls me pirate one-eyed person, because my mother is a disabled person, an eye cannot see, is pounded when nine years old by the human with the gravel, because such mother feels inferior very much with grandmother\’s heavy male own female, mother\’s marriage has also become a transaction, my one\’s own father too vexed, anything listens to his elder brother, has two daughters obviously, now actually anything does not have.
I do not have the joyful childhood, does not have the complete family. I hope very much has an own family, likes me loving my person, perhaps he is not, therefore I choose to flinch, I choose the dear ones. My the burden pressure at heart is very since childhood big, does not have the joy of contemporaries, although usually laughing, silly, but only then I knew that I actually am not joyful, these are only my camouflage, I do not have the security sense, but he has not given me the security sense.
This I did not know that is to is wrong, but I have chosen, did not have the escape route. I am not am easy to fall in love with a person\’s person, because feels for me is very important, if the opposite party is not I wants, you have many money also to have any relations with me, that is your money is not my, I want that many money not to use, what I want is only one loves me to like me understanding my person, may face the difficult person with me together, perhaps he is not, because he me facing all matters, he is lost me the family member, therefore I choose to flinch. [Goes to original placard to help Lou Zhu]Examines more net friend\’s story >>> (This article originates: NetEase woman forum)
